

This thread is about you finding how to work on yourself more to achieve your goals by becoming stronger.įinally, a good way to reframe the shit to feel more motivated to overcome your shit is that after you explain it, rephrase it saying how you will take concrete measurable actions to conquer it. We discourage reddit puppet play-by-play advice. However, don’t call the gym saying “Hey, someone threw a jab at me, what do I do now?”. It does not matter that you lost the fight, what matters is that you are taking steps to become stronger. At the gym the others might suggest some drills to get your legs a bit looser or just give you a pat in the back. If you found out in your last fight your legs were stiff, we encourage you to admit this is why you lost, and come back to the gym decided to train more to improve that. Mistakes are the most powerful teachers, but only if we listen to them. You are responsible for identifying your weakness or mistakes, and even better, start brainstorming about how to become stronger. The idea is similar to some of the activities in “No More Mr. In this thread we welcome everyone to disclose a weakness they have discovered about themselves that they are working on. We have to do this evaluation all the time to improve as men. Bravery is facing these challenges, and overcoming the challenges is the source of your strength. This means that you have to be a very tough judge, look at those areas you never want to look at, understand your weaknesses, accept them, and then plan to overcome them.

A fundamental core principle here is that you are the judge of yourself.
